Case Study: Transforming Negative Behaviour Around Alcohol with Belief Coding

Before:
Lucy Kierzek’s partner was struggling with erratic behaviour when drinking, and it was affecting their relationship. Despite being a loving and kind person, alcohol triggered mood swings that left things feeling unpredictable. Although Lucy was nervous about whether Belief Coding® could address something so tied to alcohol, she decided to proceed with a session. Two years later, his negative behaviours haven’t returned, and their relationship is stronger than ever.

The Challenge:
Lucy’s partner faced challenges that made social situations difficult:

• Erratic behaviour when drinking: Alcohol often led to sudden mood swings, creating tension in social settings.
• Emotional trauma: At 21, he had a child out of wedlock, which led to his mother turning her back on him. This sense of betrayal stuck with him and came out in his behaviour when drinking.
• Estranged relationship with his daughter: His unresolved guilt and anger over being estranged from his daughter for 14 years made it difficult to open up emotionally.

The Solution:
Despite Lucy’s concerns, the Belief Coding session helped her partner uncover deeply rooted beliefs related to his feelings of betrayal and anger from his past. The session allowed him to reframe these beliefs, leading to significant emotional breakthroughs.

The Belief Coding® Sessions:
During the session, Lucy’s partner traced his unresolved trauma to his feelings of rejection from his mother at 21. This had affected his behavior for years, especially when drinking. The Belief Coding process helped him release these feelings and adopt new, healthier beliefs.

Results:
The transformation was immediate and lasting:

• Immediate Change: After the session, he felt an emotional release, and for the first time in 14 years, he reached out to his estranged daughter.
• New Beliefs: He replaced his old limiting beliefs with new empowering ones:
• "I’m calm and relaxed when I drink."
• "I know my limits and stay in control."

Two years later, Lucy and her partner are still enjoying the benefits. He drinks socially without issue, and they no longer face the tension that alcohol once caused.

• Emotional Growth: His relationship with his daughter has improved since the session, and they’ve built a new connection.
• Stronger Relationship: Lucy and her partner can now attend social events without fear of his old behaviours resurfacing.

Conclusion:
The Belief Coding® session transformed Lucy’s partner’s relationship with alcohol and his emotional well-being. Two years later, the positive effects are still in place, and their relationship continues to thrive.

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